The Circle of Our Friendship

Naturally, we like friendships, social relationships, because humans are created to live in society. We spend our time with friend since kids and grow up together, until we are more independent, we still need people with the same frequency.

One fact that I know from quarter of a century old I am is our friends will change at the same time when we change our frequency. Frequency that I mean are, our habit, knowledge, relationship status, environment, and others indicator that make we are become new person than before.

People who used to go hand in hand may be far apart now, person who used to feel unfamiliar before turned out to be close now, it is possible in this life. Keep friendships is fine, but remember, there are no eternal things in this world, come and go of human in our lives is the nature of this world.

When someone still become our friend but not close anymore because of different location we are now, or lost contact, or other reason, that are normal condition. It will become different if the ending situation become hostile. If it’s not your fault that do bad things to others, keep this statement, as a person, you don’t have to worry about human who doesn’t want to close with you, it’s not a thing that we have to think over and over, we can’t control others, and let they do what they want to do and also they have the consequences for their choice.

What we need to think and pay attention is about people who are still being our friend today and maintain the relationships with them who are still want to grow in kindness. Enjoy your life, forget bad people, and keep good relationship with others.